Bachelor Recap

Today you are probably going to get 2 posts... one to go over my scary - no joke weekend and one to discuss last nights show, because I have a lot to say about it!  So here we go...

Ben's Hair is always of topic, as usual, it is BAD and after watching last night's show - his wardrobe followed suit... it was just as bad!

I don't even know where to start! I love how with Nikki and Lindzi, they had to do more scary things than Courtney. The most dangerous thing he has done with her was skinny dipping. NOT fair! I would like to see the oh-so-precious Courtney jump of a mountain or something - anything, but instead they get the picnics dates. I found it fitting for her to be a cow field this time - that was mean, but I can't really say I take it back! I am pulling a Courtney! I think one of  my favorite lines from Courtney would be the "did you want me to bend over and take it up the tailpipe." How did I miss that in the previous episode! She could have a show called Sh*t Courtney Says. I love that she told Ben she was sorry, but was she really? I just don't see her as an honest person and because of that I can't follow much of what she says, I see past it. Is she being sincere when she says she loves Ben?

I love that Kacie came back, not to try to "win" him back, but for closure. I think it is odd for Ben to change his opinion of her based on her family, you are dating her, not her family and like she said, just because her family wants something, it does not mean that she does. She was devastated when he sent her home, yet still came back and I think that she did it in a great way. I like her, but maybe she deserves better than Ben! I love how honest she was with Ben about everything and even after she said all she could, she still admitted that she loved him. I can see them getting together after the show, almost like a Jason and Molly!

But then there is Lindzi and he has already said that he loves her, I believe 2 or 3 times last night. Go with that. If you are having second guesses about Courtney or Nikki, but you are not with Lindzi, then obviously that means something! I like the chemistry they have. I find her very classy, even after she hung her ass out on national TV. I still think Ben and Lindzi would be be good together! They blend well!

However I find Ben really hard to read and I also find that he doesn't enjoy serious conversations. He gets awkward and avoids them, like how he brought up Courtney's actions, he seemed to get moody and then dropped it. They ended up discussing it, but only after they had drank enough... lol.

I liked Nikki, but I think Ben was seeing more of a friendship her. They didn't have sparks when they were together, like he does with Lindzi and like he imagines with Courtney. I bet if Lindzi had went skinny dipping instead he would choose her... 

But Ben, you were warned, not once, but several times and I am sure that when you watch this show back, you are going to be thinking WTF!